You will meet whoever you are.

Dong Qing has such a passage in the Reader:

the encounter between people is really a wonderful chemical reaction.

everyone you meet in your life is no accident.

01

all encounters cause and effect

Last year's hit drama "all right", Su Mingyu was originally a stubborn girl who was not liked by her native family. Fortunately, she met her mentor Lao Meng and taught her all the way to the top of her life.

he saw that she had a talent for sales and took her into the workplace, pointing out the direction and dream of her life.

soon after she joined the profession, she lost more than 300,000 yuan by using her official seal, and Lao Meng kept her.

to her, like a daughter, Lao Meng slipped her a bank card directly after learning that her mother had died.

at that time, many girls envied Su Mingyu's luck: how could I not meet such a high-quality boss and life mentor?

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indeed, it is impossible to find such people around us.

but don't forget that the magnetic fields between people can induce each other.

if it wasn't for Su Mingyu's tenacity, wisdom and courage, how could she attract Lao Meng and spare no effort to help her?

the Law of attraction in psychology says that what kind of person you are, what kind of people and energy you will attract.

if you fly with the Phoenix, you must be a handsome bird; if you go with a tiger and wolf, you must be a beast!

A person's character, hobby, quality of life, and goal direction can be clearly seen at a glance by looking at the nearest five people around him.

all over the world, no matter how far away it is, those with the same frequency will eventually cross the vast sea of people, and similar souls will eventually meet.

02

who you are, you will be with

some people have discussed, what is the best state of marriage?

the conclusion is that it must be run by two equal souls.

Xiao Yun, a recent graduate from the company, is always thinking about how to become a winner in life through marriage instead of her work.

A female colleague got married and gave us happy candy. Xiaoyun told us at noon with envy on her face, "she's so lucky to be married so well."

I said, "I'm pretty good myself."

but she turned a deaf ear and kept sighing why I didn't have such a good life.

Yes, this female colleague is indeed married well. Her husband is a senior lawyer in four major law firms with an annual salary of more than one million.

but she is not bad herself. She has achieved the position of director of public relations at a young age. No matter how busy she is, she has to go to the gym three times a week, always keeping her figure slim and gorgeous.

look at Xiaoyun, she often brushes all kinds of social software and Taobao during the day, stays up late to play games at night, and always has all kinds of haggard and acne on her face.

over the past half a year, I have not only made no achievements in my work, but also made frequent mistakes, which have been complained by my colleagues.

finally, she was fired by her boss on the grounds of incorrect work attitude.

you only see other people marrying good people, but you don't see that others have the ability to be side by side with good people.

Zhang Jiajia said: "everyone is a semicircle, and in this vast world, there will eventually be another semicircle that fits perfectly with you, just enough to make a perfect circle."

what kind of person you are, what kind of person you are with.

Lin Huiyin finally chose Liang Sicheng, which is a sympathetic relationship between talented people and talented women.

Zhong Nanshan and his wife Li Shaofen are also attracted to each other by excellent souls.

Guo Jingjing marries Huo Qigang, it is a close match between the champion and the rich family.

if you want to be with excellent people, you must first cultivate yourself.

think of a paragraph that a blogger once said:

so now you must work harder and meet the future TA with your best self.

03

if you are in full bloom, the breeze comes from

. In this era, people like to meet people who are better than themselves, as their own network reserve.

but the fact is: most of these social and social connections are useless.

one of my seniors once shared her entrepreneurial experience.

when she was still in college, she was very interested in doing e-commerce and met several big names in various activities.

but just after graduation, she decided to start a business and confidently contacted these bigwigs to ask for relevant experience, but almost no one responded.

she had no choice but to gnash her teeth to learn, practice, fail, and come again. Step by step, she has finally made some achievements.

now, there is an endless stream of people who come to her to discuss cooperation, including those who used to be big names.

Sister finally said with emotion: "instead of trying to get to know others, it is better to improve yourself in a down-to-earth manner."

Yes, if you are not good enough, you can't get into the circle of excellence even if you sharpen your head, and you can't get the favor of good people.

excellent people are friends all over the country; those who have no strength are unable to move in court.

likes a passage very much:

A really strong person doesn't pay too much attention to pleasing and attaching to others. The so-called circles and resources are only derivatives. The most important thing is to improve your internal skills. Only when you have practiced yourself, will others be attached to you.

if you are a sycamore, the Phoenix will come to live; you are the sea, and all rivers will come to gather.Only when you get to that level, will you have a corresponding circle, not the other way around.

Yes, if you plant a plane tree, it is bound to attract the Phoenix.

instead of chasing a horse, it is better to use the time to chase a horse to recommend it. When the spring flowers blossom for days, there will be a number of horses for you to choose.

if you want to meet a better person, you must become a better person.

04

Han Han once said:

how far a person can go depends on who he is traveling with;

how good a person is depends on who he guides;

how successful a person is depends on who he is with.

Life is long, and it really matters who you are with.

because they will affect your thoughts, values, and lifestyle, and change your life imperceptibly.

in this world, we don't meet for no reason.

everyone around you today is actually a seed unwittingly planted in the first half of your life.

Let us polish ourselves into better and more independent people over a long period of time.

for the rest of our lives, I hope that no matter how good a person we meet, whether he is a lover, friend, or work partner,

will have the strength to say: you are fine, but I am worth it.