Who is sincere to me, who am I sincere to?

01

someone has asked a question: what are people most afraid of when they get along with others?

the following answer goes like this:

We have all had this feeling:

We are not yet acquainted with people, but talk too much and too deeply.

the other party plays a game, but he enters the play and takes it seriously.

I have heard a saying:

every seemingly heartless person has experienced ten thousand arrows through the heart before he becomes invulnerable.

if you look down on everything, you won't be sad, but you won't be tempted again.

Zhang Xiaoxian said:

how can a person who has let you down let you down only once?

there is only one heart, and if it is cold, it will not be hot.

Trust is only once, and if you lose it, you can't get it back.

02

writer Yang Jiang once said:

in this world, you laugh, and everyone laughs with you. But if you cry, you're the only one crying.

there are countless friends in the address book, but it will be helpless if you want to talk to someone.

there are many people who are willing to talk and laugh with you, but few people can listen to your heart.

some words can comfort others, but they are embarrassed to disturb themselves.

I am afraid that what is told is a story and what others hear is a joke.

it's not difficult to talk about wine, but it's hard to share the good and the bad. The circle is getting bigger and bigger, but the heart is getting more and more lonely.

there are no stories of empathy in this world, there are only warm and cold self-knowledge.

to yourself, an earth-shaking injury is nothing but dust brushed by others.

I have heard a story:

Su Dongpo and Zen Master Foyin are friends.

once, when they visited Lingyin Temple in Hangzhou, Su Dongpo was surprised to see the Guanyin Bodhisattva hanging a rosary in his hand.

Su Dongpo asked Buddha Yin Zen Master:

Buddha Yin Zen Master said:

because the Quan Yin Bodhisattva knows better than the rest of the world, it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself.

when you experience a certain amount of suffering, you will know:

backers, mountains will fall; rely on people, people will grow old.

lean back and forth, and you will find that you are the only one you can rely on in the end.

whether it is anyone, the request to help each other must be an equal exchange.

in this world, only your parents will pay for you unconditionally. It's also hard for you to meet a second person who is willing to put you first in everything.

Haruki Murakami said:

so it's lucky to meet your heart. Do not meet, is the normal state of life.

03

when people are alive, they are stop-and-go.

whoever can't do it around you, wind and rain know the heart, and a friend in need is a friend indeed.

I really do not pursue it when I am happy, but I never give up when I am lost.

when people are down, they know whose hands are the warmest.

people don't know whose heart is softest until they get hurt.

Nothing would do you more favor than plus size wedding dresses. We have cuts and forms to fit any silhouette.

one person who understands your tears is better than a large group of people who understand your laughter.

some people say:

so it's rare to find someone who can spare a hand to warm you.

Don't lose the person who is nice to you.

Life is not like the echo of the valley. You get what you give and reap what you sow.

I have heard a story:

two stones come from the same mountain, one is carved into a Buddha, and the other is made into a stepped stone. As a result, people step on the stone steps every day to worship the statue of the Buddha.

step stone said to Buddha stone angrily:

Buddha stone answered calmly:

the same is true of feelings. Everything in the world is nothing more than karma.

Don't blame others for being heartless if you don't cherish other people's true feelings.

Life is not about who is sincere to me and who I am devoted to. You are true and I am more real, you fake me and I turn around.

if you regard me as a true friend, I will value you as my bosom friend. If you help me, I will give you a hand.