Please take these ten kinds of people out of your moments.
Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
01
people who like to judge others
there are always some people around you who like to judge others and tell them what to do about their lives.
this kind of person is nothing more than picking on others from his own point of view.
if you hear a person commenting on others with relish, maybe one day you will inadvertently find that he comments the same way about you.
stay away from those who find fault, they can only criticize but do not appreciate.
being with people who always focus on other people's shortcomings can only be consumed by their emotions, which is not good for life.
02
people who love jealousy
some people can't see others well.
if you marry well, he will say that it is nothing more than winning by appearance.
if your child studies well, he will say, "apart from good grades, this child is simply mentally retarded in life."
if you work well and get promoted, he will say that you rely on brown-nosing and get close to your leader.
in short, all your goodness will form resentment in his heart.
people who love jealousy like to see other people's jokes and wish everyone is inferior to themselves.
hatred born out of jealousy is like a ticking time bomb that may one day be detonated.
03
people who are too dependent
have you ever met such a person in your life?
when it comes to what you can, you always like to let others do it for you.
A lot of small things, such as picking up a courier, photocopying a document, and adding some water to the cup.
important events such as: you know how to write, help me write a copywriter; help me correct this manuscript; you are so rich, lend me some money.
and often such people do not like to give for others, but only know how to take.
most of the dependent people are selfish and self-centered, which makes you feel tired.
people who depend on them usually lack empathy and are tired if they don't understand whether others have worked overtime all night.
stay away from people who are too dependent, because they take themselves too seriously and never take others seriously.
04
pessimistic people
people are all products of the environment. If we get close to someone, we will gradually become people like them.
pessimists see only the pessimistic side no matter what they look at.
and pessimistic emotions are easy to be contagious, and over time, they will be infected by their negativity.
it is normal to have cloudy days, sunny days, rain, wind and snow in our life.
No matter whose life, spring is not always bright all the year round.
optimistic people will face it with a positive attitude, no matter sunny or cloudy, they can always keep a bright mood.
A pessimistic person, regardless of rain, rain or snow, his life is always full of gloom.
stay away from pessimists and don't let the haze of their hearts obscure your clear sky.
05
A liar
whether a person is credible or not depends on whether his speech is sincere or not.
because many truths are covered up by his lies.
if you don't tell the truth from the false, you may also make the wrong decision because of lies.
lies are for the purpose of gossiping and for the idea of grandstanding.
with people who like to lie, over time, you have no way to tell which sentence is true and which is false, and you lack a basic sense of sincerity and trust in the crowd.
stay away from those who love to lie, be with sincere people, feel at ease, do not have to guess.
06
complainers
everyone has bad things in their lives.
some people learn to learn from disappointments and correct them.
people who like to complain like to pass the buck and get rid of their responsibilities with resentment.
complainers usually lack a sense of responsibility.
people who like to complain will find unpleasant things everywhere in their life, and they will always find a person who takes the blame for them.
the more people complain, the more they see the unsatisfactory aspects of life, and gradually ignore the good things.
complaining not only darkens the mood of the complaining person, but also annoys the person who complains.
stay away from complainers, because they are emotional blockers and can only add to your heart.
07
people who make a mountain out of a molehill
in life, there are often people who like to exaggerate and make a mountain out of a molehill.
such people like to make trouble and like to stare at people with a magnifying glass.
it is obviously a big thing, and they will be described as as big as watermelons.
the most common thing, when it came to his mouth, became heinous.
people who make a mountain out of a molehill always dislike to make a mountain out of a molehill and like to raise the volume for fear that the world will not know.
stay away from people who make a mountain out of a molehill and give themselves a calm and comfortable environment.
if you don't give such a person a chance to peep at you with a magnifying glass, you will have more peace and less unnecessary annoyance.
08
gossipers
there is a good saying:
their favorite thing is to ask around, and then embellish it and spread it.
gossip is one of the main pleasures of life.
who said what to whom, whoWhat kind of eyes did you use when you walked over?
A trivial matter is a piece of news worthy of attention in the eyes of troublemakers.
if you are around such a person, you don't know which day, you will get caught up in the argument of right and wrong and keep making excuses out of nothing.
to stay away from the gossip is to stay away from the land of right and wrong and from the whirlpool of making something out of nothing.
09
those who win sympathy
everyone's life is not easy, and everyone has pain in their hearts.
it is very normal to talk to friends once in a while and pour out the bitterness in your heart.
but it is an unhealthy state of mind to talk to whom and talk endlessly.
Sister Xianglin in Mr. Lu Xun's "Blessing" encountered great misfortune. Her husband died of illness, the child was carried away by the wolf, and her misery and helplessness deserve people's sympathy.
No matter how hard life is, you have to move on and digest it yourself in order to be strong.
however, she complained endlessly to others, and finally turned such a sad thing into a joke in other people's mouth.
other people don't really empathize with the sorrows of life, and they must swallow what they should endure.
people who win sympathy like to indulge in their own emotions, only a foot in front of their eyes, can not see the distance.
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stay away from such people and don't let them drown and lead you into negative emotions.
10
people with strong control
most of them are very narcissistic and like to give orders and assign you unconditional obedience.
obviously there is no advantage, but also requires you to look at them with admiration.
get along with such a person, he will constantly ask you to do this and that for him, and he will be furious if he doesn't follow their instructions.
A controlling person will treat you as a bag, a car, or a moving machine he buys, but he doesn't treat you like a human being.
they think that his thoughts are equal to your thoughts, and everything you have must be under his control.
stay away from such people, or you will really become a robot controlled by him.