80% of the happiness of a family depends on a man

Venus once said, "Women are water. If you meet me with 0 degrees, I will immediately become ice; if you love me with 100 degrees, I will immediately boil; if you treat me with 50 degrees, I will be neither cold nor hot."

the attitude of men determines the reaction of women to a large extent.

the happiness of a family depends on 80% of men.

A man's kindness to his wife will make his wife full of happiness, and his wife will have love to warm the whole family.

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the husband respects the wife

the child respects the mother more

the husband treats his wife well, that is, he is rich in raising children.

in "Men who do housework 3", there is a clip that moved me.

Song Yanfei's father took out a collection of love letters written to his wife 30 years ago and made an affectionate confession on the program.

Father Song's pet name for Mother Song is "Little Mouse", and Mother Song's pet name for Father Song is "Big Mouse".

the letter wrote: "I miss you so much. Although you are not by my side, you often appear in my mind." Honey, you are a part of my heart, and I love you. "

after reading the letter, Father Song continued to express his love: "after 30 years together, the children have grown up, and one day they will have their own way. I am very proud to have three of the best children in the world." When we grow up, our bodies will change, we will grow old, our children will have their own families, and it will be just the two of us, just the two of us. But in any case, my love for you is the same as it was thirty years ago. "

the observers in the variety show wept for the immortal love while watching in front of the TV.

it can be seen that Mother Song's happiness is permeated with a smile, and the whole person is also very friendly and gentle, and their usual mode of getting along with each other also affects Song Yanfei's character and way of dealing with the world.

Song Yanfei is usually very lively and optimistic, likes to make friends, can blend in with people around her, and can chat and talk amicably.

the mother's character determines the child's character, while the husband's love determines the wife's character.

Father loves his mother, which is the best education for his children.

Children who live in a loving and warm family environment will be happier and more likely to succeed when they grow up.

Yang Jiang once wrote in her book that when the family went to dinner, there was a couple quarreling next to them, and the children sat beside them at a loss.

my daughter sighed, "I always think the child whose parents love is very lucky, because she has seen the best relationship, so she has a keen sense of healthy love, and then she knows how to run in the right direction." So I am very grateful to Mom and Dad, because you love each other, so I think I am a lucky child. "

Yes, when husband and wife fall in love, the children will be healthy and happy, and they can't be exchanged for any amount of money.

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the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more harmonious

emotional expert Tu Lei once said: "since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, but I very much agree with this sentence." in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men are useless, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. "

the role played by men in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most important.

if the relationship between the two parties is not handled properly, family conflicts will escalate.

on this point, I think actor Zhang duo has done a good job.

in the variety show "mother-in-law and mother", Zhang duo's method in dealing with the relationship between his wife and mother has been praised by many people, which can be called a textbook approach.

on one occasion, Zhang duo's mother was very enthusiastic as soon as she entered the door. She was always booing and greeting Zhang duo, but she looked as if no one was talking to daughter-in-law next to her.

then Zhang duo said to his mother, "Songsong talks to you, you listen to others."

sometimes, my mother wanted to talk to Zhang duo alone, but Zhang duo also refused and asked her to say something in front of the delivery.

when husband and wife are alone, Zhang duo will also comfort his wife, care about her emotions, and tell her not to take her mother's words to heart.

Zhang duo knows how to love his wife and give priority to her emotions.

so his mother will also be somewhat restrained and dare not say more.

psychologist Wu Zhihong said in Why Family hurts: "if the relationship between husband and wife is the core of the family and has the first voice, then the family will be rock solid."

Men are never absent from a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

once a full-time mother of her second child posted her chat with her husband on the Internet:

the wife was complaining about her mother-in-law's complaint, while the husband threw the pot away with the words "what do you want me to do?"

behind every disharmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is an inactive husband.

A husband should be a mediator between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and should not stay out of it.

if her husband could stand up for her, speak for her and express his thoughts to his mother, it would not have made the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law so stiff.

A sensible man will put a balance on the balance between the two, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become balanced and the family will become harmonious.

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A good husband comes before a good wife

friend Xiao Lin once complained to me that the gentle and sensible wife in the past was like a different person after giving birth: she always likes to lose her temper, likes to cry, and can't control her emotions.

once they had a heated quarrel because their wife saw Xiao Lin watching TV and then angrily unplugged the TV.

Kobayashi couldn't stand it, so he asked her if she had had enough of being unreasonable, and whether she didn't want to continue to live. His wife.Zi asked him to experience the "life of the moon".

in just one day, Xiao Lin felt his wife's despair. He had to breast-feed every two hours, and then he had to soothe the child's mood and change his diaper. He was busy from morning till night and had no time to rest.

at the end of the day, he was tired half to death and was very upset.

only then did he realize that his wife had worked so hard and was depressed after giving birth and had to take care of the children.

after that, he began to be considerate of his wife, take more care of the children and accompany her through the days of postpartum depression.

in most happy marriages, there is a good husband who respects and takes care of his wife's emotions.

if the wife is happy, the whole family will go well.

Women don't want much, as the saying goes: "you give her a house, she gives you a home; you give her a bunch of ingredients, she gives you a good meal; you give her a smile, she will give you a whole heart."

learn to treat your wife well, and your life is half done.

May you meet a man with action and responsibility for the rest of your life, who will accompany you from prime to old age. Years have changed my face, but my enthusiasm for you has never diminished. Love you as before, until prosperity falls